Answer by A Quora admin:
Always learn to get positive out from negative.
Learn to justify in a positive and constructive way.
If you lose then search for these things,
- What have you learn?
- How you can you improve yourself?
- Is there a trick?
- Is the opponent cheating? How can you detect and prevent from happening again?
- Can you make business out of the experience?
If you can make just 1 out of 5 you are already a winner. And the best part you took advantage and your opponent didn't know.